Accepting and Enjoying the Lifestyle

I met my Master/Husband almost three years ago. We did not start practicing the lifestyle for about six months. He introduced me to the BDSM lifestyle stating that he thought I was predisposed to it.

I like the lifestyle, however, I have not been really good at the restrictions and rules set forth by him. After a period of time, he began to punish me. We married after one year of being together and are very happily married. I still have problems with the rules, but I am learning.

Some things he did in his past caused me to be jealous. I had to learn not to be jealous because he assures me that I am the only one that he loves and the only one he has ever had this relationship with.

I was collared before our marriage. I have a long way to go yet but I intend on being more disciplined. I know that he would never hurt me maliciously. He acknowledged that it was partly his fault as a Master must be extremely dominant; therefore, he has to learn also. As he says, "There are no bad submissives, only bad Masters." Being dominant for some takes a great deal of strength, so it takes alot of courage, pride and love to take it to the point of finality.

A quality relationship in BDSM takes a great deal of thought. So..............Submissives..........please just "Do what you are told to the extent that you have BOTH agreed upon" and Masters.........If you want to be Dominant..................Be Dominant!"